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Hereโ€™s the problem: legally, the victims (or their guardian) need to file a police report and make a statement for the police to get involved. They didnโ€™t do that, and in fact, I know at least one person told Fr. Mark that they didnโ€™t want to! But he insisted they do so, and eventually they did.

This vilifying of the hierarchy is gross and wrong.


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Thatโ€™s a whole lot of conjecture on your part.

I donโ€™t think this is ever going to โ€œblow over,โ€ even if he is not convicted. He certainly wonโ€™t be given a parish assignment again. Even the most cynical person can see that everybody knows all about this now. At best, he will be sent to a monastery.

But, given the evidence presented, conviction (and subsequent laicization) is probably quite likely.




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I was awarded money based on a translation that I submitted for a โ€œcompetition.โ€

Itโ€™s also entirely debatable to what extent the organization is โ€œhisโ€ at all. I never interacted with him regarding the competition, but with Dr. Xenia Nenchin, and to my knowledge he wasnโ€™t involved in the judgesโ€™ panel at all.

Nice try at smearing me, though?






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Metropolitan Hilarion hid child abuse

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Why does it not make sense? A lot of this depends on what Fr. Serge was told and when. Fr. Mark wasnโ€™t brought in to investigate as the dean until much later, so Iโ€™m not sure why people are piling on him and calling him a liar.




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Metropolitan Hilarion hid child abuse

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Investigations take time. They were in fact carried out.

Depends entirely on the nature of what was actually said to Metropolitan Nicholas.


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Metropolitan Hilarion hid child abuse

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Oh, right! Iโ€™m the one with the bold tone, not the people accusing the Church of a coverup based on carefully tailored and only partial evidence. Right.


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โ€œClean the churchโ€ means having a key and access to the church at all hours, which she was asked to relinquish. This is a separate case of someone demanding access to church property and simply being told โ€œno.โ€ Conflating it with accusations is wrong.

The contents of the original letter arenโ€™t available, so itโ€™s conjecture what Metropolitan Nicholas is actually replying to.




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Theyโ€™re not scare quotes, theyโ€™re just quotes, because thatโ€™s the word you used, but itโ€™s important to note that this is all within a single family. Thatโ€™s crucial information. Itโ€™s not like random people came forward, and they were penalized by being kicked out of the community.

Itโ€™s not punitive at all. โ€œThis is not the best place for you to continue to be for your spiritual wellbeingโ€ is not a critical statement. It also is not good for the community at large, as I noted.

Your characterization of what is happening is completely wrong.


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He carried on an extramarital affair and then ran off to a schismatic jurisdiction. Those arenโ€™t civil offenses, there will be no court case. He was tried in absentia by the Spiritual Court after being given months to respond to the hierarchy. 

Whatever else you can say about FMW, he hasnโ€™t been uncommunicative.


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Depends what the things are that he heard. I didnโ€™t see the thing youโ€™re referring to.

The banning from the parish was not directly related to the accusations, but because of their disruptive behavior afterward. The โ€œaccusersโ€ are the Williams family members, and I think itโ€™s fair to say that none of them should be going there anymore regardless, for their own good and that of the community at large.

Fr. Matthew may be staying with a parish council member (as is their right to house him if they choose), but he is not at the church, nor is he permitted to be.


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Metropolitan Hilarion hid child abuse

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Of course you do, because you chose to open your mouth in the first place. People who donโ€™t care, donโ€™t comment.

You just donโ€™t want to deal with pushback from your erroneous comments. 









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ROCOR is historically connected to the Russian Church, but there are many parishes with hardly a single Russian.

ROCOR is far more missionary than people give it credit for. Look at the surnames of the clergy sometime. Even this sordid story: Kapral (Czechoslovak, though he was Ukrainian), Kotar (Slovenian), Williams (English), Mancuso (Italian).





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Metropolitan Hilarion hid child abuse

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Of course thereโ€™s a way around it, because ROCOR took appropriate and timely measures. Itโ€™s a stain on the abuser and any enablers of his, not the Church. 



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Metropolitan Hilarion hid child abuse

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Your headline is slanderous and abhorrent bait. Fr. Matthew did not say he came fully clean to His Eminence and told him everything he had done, but that he came to him during his โ€œcrisis of faith.โ€

A priest who doubts his faith in God could rightfully be suspended, rather than continue serving. Itโ€™s a fully logical statement.

Nothing here even remotely implies that Metropolitan Hilarion knew about the sexual abuse, much less hid it.

You should delete this post and confess it.


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Whatโ€™s the most blatant way youโ€™ve been hit on in public?

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Lots of people accusing other people of making up stories. I promise mine is true (and itโ€™s not that crazy anyway).

I was invited to a college party with some friends. A girl I knew from a club we were both in kept hanging around each of my conversations and eventually just yelled over the din โ€œI like you!!!โ€

Now, I had not realized until that point that she was even interested. But she was pretty, and thereโ€™s no time like the present, so I just kissed her. We dated for a few months, it was cute. Thatโ€™s all. 


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Call me old-fashioned butโ€ฆ

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There are sooooo many of these in Russia and Ukraine. The commies renamed everything, and only a fraction of it was changed back.

Leningrad โ€“ St. Petersburg

Stalingrad โ€“ Tsaritsyn (now Volgograd)

Sverdlovsk โ€“ Ekaterinburg

Gorky โ€“ Nizhny Novgorod

Ordzhonikidze โ€“ Vladikavkaz

Ustinov โ€“ Izhevsk

Andropov โ€“ Rybinsk

Kalinin โ€“ Tver

Zagorsk โ€“ Sergiev Posad


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Call me old-fashioned butโ€ฆ

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*Tsaritsyn

Tsargrad is what the Russians called Constantinople (โ€œKing of Citiesโ€, or โ€œCity of Caesarโ€, depending on whom you ask).

Believe it or not, Tsaritsyn doesnโ€™t have any thing to do etymologically with the word Tsar. Itโ€™s named for the nearby Tsaritsa River, which comes from the Turkic words Sary Su, meaning โ€œyellow water.โ€



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AITA if I donโ€™t change the name of my unborn baby after my sister gave her baby the same name?

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Also coming from a Russian Orthodox background, I feel like you have a lot more names available than you think!

Not that should should change the name you chose (NTA, keep it), but the pool of traditional Orthodox male names is actually enormous.



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I donโ€™t think itโ€™s because your experience is invalid, but because you put your anecdotal personal experience up against a generic and more correct statement that it IS widely used in English. The prevalence of both Jewish protagonists and NY-adjacent settings in mass media make it pretty hard to miss.


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Grew up in NJ and I heard this all the time. I stopped using it when I moved to SC because I didnโ€™t want to be outed as a Yank. 


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My wife and I use this and ereyesterday. 


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There are a few of these in Russian.

Poshlostโ€™ had an entire paragraph dedicated to it somewhere by some translator, though I canโ€™t find it now. Nabokov rendered it as โ€œpretentious vulgarity.โ€ Perhaps tacky, but like youโ€™re doing it maliciously.

Podvig is often just rendered like that in English. Etymologically it means to be moved to something. It means a great undertaking, feat, struggle, or achievement, but something that requires great inner fortitude, and often has a very spiritual meaning (saints are often called podvizhniki). The victory in WWII is often termed a podvig of the people.

This one always got me: zapivka. Itโ€™s a thing you drink after something else, to wash the first thing down. Like a chaser, I guess, but it doesnโ€™t have quite the same context to it. And you can zapivatโ€™ your pills with water, which we would just say โ€œdrink withโ€ or โ€œwash down with.โ€


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Are these Romanovs legitamate?

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But thatโ€™s the point, isnโ€™t it? It is debatable. She is not disqualified out of hand, as some are making it seem.

Your second point is simply false on its face. Female dynasts could ascend the throne, given the ineligibility or death of all male dynasts. That hasnโ€™t changed.



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Are these Romanovs legitamate?

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lol what? Of course she is a member of the Imperial House. Always has been, and now sheโ€™s its head. Sheโ€™s not a member of the irrelevant โ€œRomanoff Family Association,โ€ maybe thatโ€™s what youโ€™re thinking of?

She has said no such thing. Thatโ€™s a slander. She said they are ready to serve if called upon, but she isnโ€™t advocating for a regime change in Russia. You can understand why thatโ€™s an important distinction to make, especially in the current climate, right?



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Are these Romanovs legitamate?

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On what basis? Maria Vladimirovna can absolutely claim it legitimately. It can be debated, but she has a true and legal claim.